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I’ve decided that I’m gonna have a dinner party ๐Ÿ˜ท #nothankyou

I’ve decided that I’m gonna have a dinner party ๐Ÿ˜ท #nothankyou

I’ve been slacking off from continuing these posts that I thought were a good idea to show exactly how prevalent sexism still is in this world. But school and work and other things can wait for a minute because this is important. Because #equality for all is important. This one is for the girl who was forcefully pushed into the train car by her male companion last night when I was on my way home. I’m ashamed to say that I did not do anything about it while I had the chance for several stops both because I was afraid for myself and for what might have happened to her had I made her companion more upset. (Although had I done anything it would have simply been to ask her if she was ok, but if you know anything about violent people is that something as simple as this can escalate a situation) Now to be unbiased, I’ll admit that it could have simply been a dispute between a couple as often happens even within my own relationship but I still think that being on the safer side by asking her if she was okay rather than being sorry for not doing my part to prevent something that could have happened to her would have been the better choice and I vow to do it next time for sure to the best of my ability. 

However, when I spoke to @zachking32 about this, he shared with me two recent stories of witnessing women getting followed and harassed. So whether or not this particular girl was just having an argument with her boyfriend, the fact remains that the odds are not in our favor. 

Whether or not abuse (this includes street harassment, cat calling, and other microaggressions) is part of your daily life either as a witness or as a victim, it is real. And your unfamiliarity of it does NOT make it any less real for those of us experiencing it. So please stop the arguing as to whether or not it is a big problem or whether it even exists. Just because it’s not a problem / reality for you does not make it any less of a problem for those of us facing it. It’s time to stop this. #Stopmisogyny. #Stopstreetharassment. #Stoprapeculture. Stop the bullshit.

I’ve been slacking off from continuing these posts that I thought were a good idea to show exactly how prevalent sexism still is in this world. But school and work and other things can wait for a minute because this is important. Because #equality for all is important. This one is for the girl who was forcefully pushed into the train car by her male companion last night when I was on my way home. I’m ashamed to say that I did not do anything about it while I had the chance for several stops both because I was afraid for myself and for what might have happened to her had I made her companion more upset. (Although had I done anything it would have simply been to ask her if she was ok, but if you know anything about violent people is that something as simple as this can escalate a situation) Now to be unbiased, I’ll admit that it could have simply been a dispute between a couple as often happens even within my own relationship but I still think that being on the safer side by asking her if she was okay rather than being sorry for not doing my part to prevent something that could have happened to her would have been the better choice and I vow to do it next time for sure to the best of my ability.

However, when I spoke to @zachking32 about this, he shared with me two recent stories of witnessing women getting followed and harassed. So whether or not this particular girl was just having an argument with her boyfriend, the fact remains that the odds are not in our favor.

Whether or not abuse (this includes street harassment, cat calling, and other microaggressions) is part of your daily life either as a witness or as a victim, it is real. And your unfamiliarity of it does NOT make it any less real for those of us experiencing it. So please stop the arguing as to whether or not it is a big problem or whether it even exists. Just because it’s not a problem / reality for you does not make it any less of a problem for those of us facing it. It’s time to stop this. #Stopmisogyny. #Stopstreetharassment. #Stoprapeculture. Stop the bullshit.

What the grand fuckery is up with this sudden 50° weather!? ๐Ÿ˜ก Forever #chasingsummer โ˜€โ˜€ #notreadyforthis #fuckfall #nakeddays are almost gone ๐Ÿ˜” oh and before I hear ANY of you complain I’d like to remind y’all of when it was A degree Fahrenheit     last winter A DEGREE. Nope, I’ll stick with my hot summers thank you

What the grand fuckery is up with this sudden 50ยฐ weather!? ๐Ÿ˜ก Forever #chasingsummer โ˜€โ˜€ #notreadyforthis #fuckfall #nakeddays are almost gone ๐Ÿ˜” oh and before I hear ANY of you complain I’d like to remind y’all of when it was A degree Fahrenheit last winter A DEGREE. Nope, I’ll stick with my hot summers thank you

Game on with @zachking32 #homebodies ๐Ÿช๐Ÿช๐Ÿช๐Ÿช๐Ÿช #bettycrockermode #gamenight

Game on with @zachking32 #homebodies ๐Ÿช๐Ÿช๐Ÿช๐Ÿช๐Ÿช #bettycrockermode #gamenight

Real friends know how to make you feel special ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ thank you @tejadacarolina & @cbdub10 ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

Real friends know how to make you feel special ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ thank you @tejadacarolina & @cbdub10 ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

Beautiful flowers from beautiful friends ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ’๐ŸŒน #itsmybirthday (well it was yesterday but still)

Beautiful flowers from beautiful friends ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ’๐ŸŒน #itsmybirthday (well it was yesterday but still)

Thank you weather gods for the great picnic weather for my birthday yesterday โ˜บโ˜€๐ŸŽ‚

Thank you weather gods for the great picnic weather for my birthday yesterday โ˜บโ˜€๐ŸŽ‚

Birthday cake galore! ๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฎ thank you frands ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿผ @zachking32 @shaquoiag <3

Birthday cake galore! ๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฎ thank you frands ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿผ @zachking32 @shaquoiag <3

Crazy true

Crazy true

"It doesn&#8217;t matter if I&#8217;m not playing with it. It&#8217;s MINE ๐Ÿ˜ค๐ŸŽ€"

"It doesn’t matter if I’m not playing with it. It’s MINE ๐Ÿ˜ค๐ŸŽ€"

Wisdom

Wisdom

Finally found a good use for those #princess stickers and #barbie stickers I&#8217;ve been hoarding since my childhood &amp; summers in DR

Finally found a good use for those #princess stickers and #barbie stickers I’ve been hoarding since my childhood & summers in DR

Happy Saturday y&#8217;all #accurate but it still doesn&#8217;t give someone the right to tell you what to do with yourself so to all my fellow unknowingly grumpy faced people  keep on doing what you do on this beautiful day

Happy Saturday y’all #accurate but it still doesn’t give someone the right to tell you what to do with yourself so to all my fellow unknowingly grumpy faced people keep on doing what you do on this beautiful day

If we&#8217;re being honest…

If we’re being honestโ€ฆ

Back at school and all I can think of is summer … not ready to let this go ๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ญ ๐Ÿ‘ญ๐Ÿ‘ญ๐Ÿ‘ญ #Pilates #summer #brooklynbridge

Back at school and all I can think of is summer โ€ฆ not ready to let this go ๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ญ ๐Ÿ‘ญ๐Ÿ‘ญ๐Ÿ‘ญ #Pilates #summer #brooklynbridge